Anna & David
Couple · together for 2 years
He never gave me flowers and I thought he was unromantic. His Eros score is higher than mine. He just shows it differently — that saved our anniversary.
Relationships & Love · Challenge
Six ways to love. Which ones do you live?
Passionate, playful, companionate, practical, obsessive, or selfless: everyone loves in their own unique mix. The challenge puts your love styles side by side — and explains why a gesture means the world to one person and nothing to another.
Invitees don't need an account – one link is all it takes
- 24
- Questions per person
- ~5 min.
- per person
- 2–8
- People per challenge
- 6 styles
- in one comparison
An evening for six
The moment everyone finds out who the secret romantic is.
Six people, one sofa, the Love Style Challenge as the kickoff to the evening. Five minutes later: the group's pragmatist – the one with the spreadsheet for building a house – is by far the most passionate. And the person everyone assumed was the romantic prefers to love playfully and lightly.
The challenge takes clichés apart and replaces them with a picture you'll still be talking about weeks later.
- Five minutes per person – ideal as the kickoff to an evening
- Six styles per person, no boxes
- Optional game mode with awards
The six love styles side by side
Everyone receives their scores across all six styles. The challenge shows who leads in which style — and where your mix fits together.
Eros – Passionate Love
Attraction, intensity, all or nothing. Whoever leads here wants the grand gesture — and gives it too.
Ludus – Playful Love
Lightness, flirting, freedom. For this person, love is a game — in the best possible sense.
Storge – Companionate Love
Familiarity that grows slowly. Love as a best friendship with a future.
Pragma – Practical Love
Do we fit? This person checks values, plans, and day-to-day life — and loves all the more reliably for it.
Mania – Obsessive Love
Highs and lows, closeness and worry. Intense — and a style that needs understanding.
Agape – Selfless Love
Giving without keeping score. Whoever scores high here puts the other person before themselves.
Sample analysis
Four friends, six styles, one surprise
This is what the heart of your analysis looks like — here with fictional names and three of the six styles.
Illustrative example. Your analysis will use your real names and results.
Who this challenge is for
The shortest challenge on bejiji – and one of the most revealing. Five minutes per person, an evening of conversation.
Couples
He plans the future, she lives in the moment. She loves playfully, he goes all in. Knowing each other's style helps you interpret gestures the right way — instead of missing them.
Friends
The perfect setup for an evening of three or six: who loves how — and who spent all these years claiming to be “unromantic” when they're actually not at all?
Siblings
Raised in the same home, but never with the same way of loving. The comparison shows what you inherited — and what each of you developed on your own.
One switch, two moods
You decide when creating: a candid mirror, or a competition with a wink.
Classic
Your profiles side by side, honest and judgment-free: what you share, where you differ – no winners, no rankings.
Game mode
With rankings and awards for your group: who takes which title? Every person shines at least once – promised.
Powerhouse
Ben
Most similar duo
Mia & Sam
What groups say afterward
From date nights to bachelorette parties.
Kims Junggesellinnenabschied
Friends · 7 people
We did this as a game at the start of the evening. The awards from game mode were quoted all night long. Best idea from the maid of honor.
Die Geschwister Roth
Family · 3 people
Three siblings, three completely different styles. Our parents found the results funnier than we did — they had known it all along.
For team socials
The most relaxed way to start a team day.
Not every challenge has to be about work. As the kickoff to an offsite or team social, the Love Style Challenge brings five minutes of the kind of laughter that starts a great day — while showing how differently people experience closeness and commitment.
- 1Five minutes per person, game mode with awards
- 2One account for you – your team gets links, no registration needed
- 3For close-knit teams looking to get to know each other on a personal level
Start team challenge
Free to start · the in-depth group analysis is Premium
Frequently asked questions about the Love Style Challenge
About five minutes per person — the Love Style Challenge is the shortest on bejiji. No one has to take the test at the same time: everyone opens their link whenever it suits them, and the analysis starts as soon as everyone finishes.
Between two and eight. Perfect for couples, friends, and siblings – if you're more than eight, simply split into two challenges.
No. Only the person creating the challenge signs in. Everyone else opens their personal link – no registration, no app.
A switch when creating: turned on, your results include awards like “The Great Romantic” or “Light as a Feather.” Turned off, we describe your differences neutrally – no winners at all.
The tests, the live board, and the style comparison are free. The in-depth group analysis with duos, opposites, and tips is part of bejiji Premium – one subscription covers the whole group. Seven days start at $1.95 (incl. VAT), then $39.95 every 4 weeks, cancel anytime.
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Who loves how in your group?
Five minutes per person, an evening of conversation. Start the challenge and send out the links.
Free to start · Invitees don't need an account